We manage your divorce so you can focus on what matters.
Our Philosophy
For most families, separation and divorce upend everything - family structure, living arrangements, finances, parenting roles, social dynamics, and even mental and physical health.
Divorce is not just a legal event. It is a life transition that requires thoughtful management across every dimension of a family’s world.
As legally trained professionals and former spouses who successfully transitioned into co-parents ourselves, we serve as holistic divorce managers - guiding families legally, emotionally, and structurally from beginning to end, and helping them move into their next chapter with clarity and stability.
Who We Serve
Our clients are parents who want to maintain strong connections to their kids, make wise choices about their next chapter, and keep the door open for respectful co-parenting.
Most clients do not come to us feeling cooperative or aligned with their spouse. They arrive depleted, overwhelmed, and unsure how to move forward. Under our care, clients feel immediate relief from the chaos of divorce. With the benefit of our stabilizing structure, they become capable, clear, and in control - confident in the way they handled one of the most difficult periods of their lives.
What We Do
Redefining Family focuses on non-litigious legal solutions for divorcing individuals and couples. We offer mediation services, individual divorce coaching, and our proprietary Integrated Divorce Method.
We bring legal experience, crisis management, coaching, and lived perspective together to guide families through one of life’s most destabilizing transitions with clarity, structure, and steady emotional support.
Who We Are
Founded by two California-licensed attorneys and former spouses who successfully redefined their own family, our legal practice and the Integrated Divorce Method are shaped by both professional training and firsthand experience of divorce and long-term co-parenting.